Dear Sir Who Gave Me His Seat on the Bus,

[melayneseahawk]

Now, while I'm usually the first person to bemoan "chivalry" as misogynistic (and to run to open the door for my male friends, much to their chagrin), I really appreciate you giving up your seat for me. I know you were doing it to give the little waif of a girl a seat, but I took it because the damn meds are playing havoc with my blood pressure. At the time you gave up your seat, I was feeling rather faint, and not looking forward to standing for almost half an hour on a warm, crowded bus. Disaster waiting for a place to happen, let me tell you.

I know I thanked you on the bus, but I want to do it again. You made my day a little bit easier.

Merry Christmas (as odd as it is for atheist, blasphemous little me to say it).

Me

Comments

chivalry

[(Anonymous)]

Actually, chivalry does imply that women need to be taken care of, perpetutating stereotypes of female's weakness. That is not to say that every man who opens the door for a woman believes that she is weaker, but it does in fact imply that. One of my male friends opens car doors, scoots in chairs etc, but because that is what he DOES, not because he thinks I'm incapable of it. *shrugs*

I'm trying to remember the orgins of the practice... I know that they are false construct based on romanticized ideals about past behavior.

If, however, you felt faint, you probably looked faint, and thats good enough reason to give up a seat, in my world.

Re: chivalry

[melayneseahawk.livejournal.com]

You see, that's what I'm talking about.